Friendship. The most important thing which is involved in that idea is two or more people those who can call each other friends. It is easy to call a friend the person with whom you spend your time, but it is very difficult to find real friends and people to get on with them like a house on fire. True friendship needs much time to make it and efforts to save it. So that is why different people, have different understanding about friendship’s definition. I have my own understanding with some similar ideas of being in friendship.
In the first place, it is said that trust and friendship go hand in hand. Trust is the most important thing in relation. Friendship can be only long-lasting, when friends can trust in one another. The time is one of the factors which builds trust and it takes time to really know someone. It means, two or more people have to know each other very well for a long time if they want to be real friends. Because of time your patience shows how much you need to create a tie between you and your friend. Friendship can be hard work sometimes, but it is pleasure to have a shoulder to cry on later. That is why people need to find a right person to trust in.
In the second place, friendship is about true feelings between you and your friend. There shouldn’t be jealousy, suspiciousness between each other, because if you have a friend, you have a person, who will always listens to you and never tell anyone your secrets, also helps you anytime and shows an attendance to your problems. It must be mutual responsibility. When you help your friend or take a pleasure when listening to him problems, it means true feelings in relationship. You have to give what you want to get. Being with friend means being yourself, so if you can’t feel like that, you must forget the person who you met, because he is not you right decision. Friends might come and go in your life, they might make you laugh and cry, but most importantly of all, they love you for who you are.
All in all, friendship is very important mission in all of us life. If you create ties in teens and will save it till your old age, means that you did everything in right way. It would be good work to save your friends for future. You would be happy about your efforts to find true friend, because it is very useful in different situations to have a friendship in which you can trust all your life.
I agree that time is really important in starting friendship , but I did not understood this sentence of yours :"If you create ties in teens and will save it till your old age, means that you did everything in right way." In spite of this, I liked your essay :)
AtsakytiPanaikintiI have the same opinion about your statement: "True friendship needs much time to make it and efforts to save it." I also agree that there should be no jealousy and suspiciousness ,because true friends must trust and respect each other. good job:)
AtsakytiPanaikintiI like these statements : "Being with friend means being yourself",
AtsakytiPanaikinti"they love you for who you are".
It is true, because while being with friends you can be yourself. They know what kind of person you are and they like you :)))
It is great that you have your own understanding about what is friendship. I agree with you absolutely.
AtsakytiPanaikintiAurelija, jei sukursi ryšius tarp draugų jaunas ir išsaugosi juos iki senatvės, reiškia viską padarei teisingai:) thanks anyway!
AtsakytiPanaikintiGabriele, I really liked your point of view. I also agree with you that jealousy and suspiciousness destroys relationship even between the strongest friendships.
AtsakytiPanaikintiI totally agree that jealousy and suspiciousness is something completely incompatible with friendship.
AtsakytiPanaikintiI agree that trust is the most important thing in relation. Without it there wouldn't be any friendship at all.
AtsakytiPanaikintiI disagree with your last statement in the conclusion that friendship is a mission. It is not a mission, It's you choice to be friends with somebody or not. All in all, great essay.
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